Taking Kids' Ministry Home
Posted on August 20, 2020 8:00 AM by Joshua Lenon
Anything we can do to stop encouraging outsourcing the primary spiritual development to those other than the parents would be a win. I believe this season would allow for churches to reconsider an approach towards integrating families in ways they would not have been able to before.
The question for us comes in how we set up parents for success each week and month. Our family team works on activity packets that translate the weekly teaching into “kid” and they also create family discussion cards for dinner times and drive times.
Red Door is not currently meeting in person and that has caused a shift even for us. We have personally found that engaging our kids with a live stream is a battle not worth fighting. Most of our parents were feeling like failures for not keeping their kids engaged in a live stream. One hour with adults talking for most of it is hard for a kid. That should not be the barometer for success.
We decided it was better to encourage parents to use different outlets for the kids during the time they watch the live stream. We have focused on helping parents with the discussion cards through the week and resources they can use for devotions as well as other media resources. The primary question continues to be… How do we set-up a parent for success?
When we do meet in person, we will return to packets for the kids to use during our service. These are usually filled with:
1. A coloring sheet (or sheets)
2. An activity that corresponds to the teaching
3. A snack
4. A tray for them to use as a writing surface
Most parents raised in church feel like it is important that their kids sit and listen. I prefer to think they should play and listen. The kids in our gatherings are picking up waaaay more than their parents realize. It is usually when the kid blurts out a question mid-week about what was said on Sunday when the parent realizes their kids were hearing a lot more than we thought. But it’s the same way at home. We don’t think our kids are listening until much later when they blurt something out we didn’t think they had heard—usually to our surprise!
Kids are going to make things louder and more interesting. Good. Parents will be frustrated and embarrassed. No big deal. I think any pastor that is going to encourage it should embrace it with vision for what it could and should be. Not simply as another thing to endure during COVID. The pastor is the one who has to set the tone to let parents know that it is no big deal if their kids do kid things. I have had kids walk up and ask me questions as I’m teaching. Great. We aren’t running productions. How we handle our kids’ hearts these days will be a big deal. They will know if they feel like a nuisance or a part of what is happening.
I don’t know what pastors’ timelines are for returning to “normal” childcare and kid’s ministry. But I do think that embracing bringing the family together could be good for this season (and beyond if willing to consider it).
“Taking Kids’ Ministry Home” is scheduled for 11:00 a.m. and repeat the session live at 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, September 1.
Features Joshua Lenon, Pastor, and Ben Eckstein, Family Pastor, Red Door Church, in Fairfield, Oh. We plan to meet via Zoom. Join the Zoom meeting
--Joshua Lenon pastors Red Door Church in Fairfield, Oh.